Hello guys, I am in serious need of some help. I am in a horrible place right now.

I have been a member of this forum for almost 10 years, and I pray i'm not over stepping any boundaries, but I really need as much exposure to this as possible.

If it's at all possible to give me a sticky I would appreciate it.

If anyone know's any players that may be willing to help I would be forever greatful to you and them.

If you can't help, please at least pray for me. This ebay auction should explain things more.

Thank you! And please keep me in your prayers.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=005&sspagename=STRK%3AMESE%3AIT&viewitem=&item=150135836982&rd=1&rd=1

One more thing, I will gladley explain my situation to anyone truly willing to help. PM me and I will give you my phone number!!

Thanks!

I checked the Ebay auction and it really didn't explain things more than you did. Sorry things aren't going well for you, I would suggest getting in touch with a MOD or Admin and explaining the situation to them. Simply saying you are in a bad situation won't be enough to keep this thread active, as you are basically soliciting for financial gain.

I hope things improve, and that someone helps you out.

Do you need bail money, Tulsa??? Maybe you can get a bail bondsman to accept 10% down...;)

those r some good collectors items, wish i had some money

I agree with DomeDog about the checking with a mod deal. But then again they have closed threads since this one has been open so maybe it is okay by them.


As far as getting people to donate money, you are really going to probably just come out and say what has happened or what the situation is that you need help. Then people may be more inclined to help you out. Of course that is just my opinion. I think people would probably want to help if it is a worthy cause. But I serioiusly doubt they want to go through any extra steps (emailing you) to find out what it is. They should just know first hand and then be able to make their decision. Hope everything works out for you.

I agree with DomeDog about the checking with a mod deal. But then again they have closed threads since this one has been open so maybe it is okay by them.


As far as getting people to donate money, you are really going to probably just come out and say what has happened or what the situation is that you need help. Then people may be more inclined to help you out. Of course that is just my opinion. I think people would probably want to help if it is a worthy cause. But I serioiusly doubt they want to go through any extra steps (emailing you) to find out what it is. They should just know first hand and then be able to make their decision. Hope everything works out for you.

yes this is the route to take ..PM any mod or Dan or Andrus.. let them know your situation and ask permission to seek help on the forum...

I have talked and explained my situation to one of the mods. I may post what's going on to the forum. I can assure you this is a serious problem.

Thanks guys!!

I'll say a prayer for you Tulsa. Maybe you could post what the situation is?

Tulsa Saint....pm me with your phone #..........Stonewall

Kenny! Nice to see you. Hang in there. Don't give up on this place. You'll learn to love its atmosphere. Geaux Saints!

well, I just typed out the hole situation and hit submit and it said I wasn't logged in.. so, I will try again, guess I will make it shorter this time

you have a pm stonewall

ok, let's try this again!!

Just went through a really bad marriage and an even worse divorce. I was getting many threats during the divorce but it's gone from bad to worse. my ex-wife had broken into my home, threatened me and the boys with kidnapping and death. she has slashed my tires and tried to get me fired from my job.

I have been granted relocation permission and would like to move to either the Houston or Austin area as I have some friends and family down there. I am a single father on a single income, I used what savings I had to pay for attorney fees. I need to raise some money to move. I have to get out of this town.

I know some of you may think I'm taking this a little too serious, but I know first hand what a psycho ex-spouse can do to someone. I work for Lowrance Electronics, and about 2 years ago we had a young lady about my age, 32 or so, who worked in marketing. She was going through exactley what I am going through now, being the computer guy at work, you tend to get to know everyone more. One day, her ex walked in the office and shot her cold dead, then shot himself. I was just down the hall.

You can still PM me for my phone number, and you can verify any of this info. go to www.oscn.net and search all court documents for [Mod edit], that's me.. you will see my divorce.

Search google for "Tulsa lowrance murder"

http://www.wsws.org/articles/2005/mar2005/side-m16.shtml

From the link above...
Tulsa, OK: A 33-year-old man walked into the Lowrance Electronics plant, killed his ex-wife, a plant office worker, with a shotgun blast, and then himself.


This is not a joke, i'm not just trying to sale something for more than it's worth. In fact, anything in my house is for sale, nothing is worth me and my childrens life, if you want something or need something just ask. I am starting a new life, I may as well start with nothing, none of this matters to me right now, all of it is replaceable.

Anyway, I don't know what else to say right now except keep me and my boys in your prayers.

thanks.

***[Mod Edit: I don't think it' a good idea to post anything you don't want to show up in a google search. And stalkers know how to google! - ST]***

hey how long was ya married to her. i think i was married to her myself

lol, thanks ftballsmarts, that's the first time I have smiled in a week!! 7 years, should have been 2, I put off doing what I knew was going to happen for over 5 years in fear of losing my boys to her. she is not a mother, and everyone led me to believe the mother automatically get's custody no matter what, until I talked to some lawyers who explained to me it wasn't like that anymore.

Just my 2 cents: While asking us to keep you in your prayers is totally cool and, trust me, most of us will ... I think asking people to financially support you through a personal problem is bordering on "over the line." I'm sure dozens of members here have just as legitimate of a reason asking for donations, help, etc. I myself could sit here and type a life story about how my wife and I can barely pay the bills, too, but unfortunately life just doesn't always go the way you want it to. Everything happens for a reason sometimes you will just have to do your best to get through them and use friends and family for support when you can't. With that said, I do with you the best of luck with your situation and sincerely hope you get as much as you can in your auction.

Take what you absolutly need, throw the rest in storage or lock it up in the house and get the heck out. Yeah it costs money to move everything you have, but very little to move what you need, You can't put a price on your or your kids lives. They are resiliant, they will make it. Get your transfer ASAP, call a family member, load up your vehicle with what you need and leave. Worry about the rest later. If she does something stupid to what you leave behind tempararily (sp?) who cares? Insurance pays out well.

I want to apologize for my earlier flippant remark. I thought you were Tulsa Saint that was from Duke and was in Brazil recently...Sorry for what you are going through.

I'm not really asking people for financial support, i'm selling things of value to me and hoping maybe to get more than they are worth, so kind of a "yes and no" deal. If they sell for $50 bux then so be it, notice the auction is no reserve.

Good luck, man.