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07-17-2012, 01:11 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Burbank, CA
Age: 26
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Crazy EX help
So I have come to here because I honestly am at a loss of what to do. I have an ex who I dated for 7 months (4 of which was long distance) and we broke up about a year and 4 months ago. The break up was bad as it was long distance and she would call me from other peoples phones, and would call 16 times a night (not joking or being figurative) every weekend for a month. Well we havent had contact since March but before that time she had hid stuff in my room giving her an excuse to come back (read: she hid a pair of panties behind/under my bed). Well I just recieved a voice mail from her, pretending to be a girl that I told her I had started seeing (the name was made up but I was seeing someone else), telling me that we should be friends. The message is 3 mins long and was followed up by some drunk texts from her and 3 more calls. What should I do????
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07-17-2012, 01:18 AM
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He didn't make it
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Somewhere in Ohio
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Get a new phone number. Maybe a can of mace.
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07-17-2012, 01:22 AM
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...if you like saxophones
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Location: Slidell, LA
Age: 38
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Ignore teh crazy and it will (eventually.... maybe VERY eventually, to be sure) go away. This takes discipline, because it is tempting to just turn around and yell at teh crazy, or fight with teh crazy.
But attention is what crazy wants, and crazy does not distinguish between negative attention and positive attention.
Your friends may have what you think is a great idea for "revenge" on teh crazy. This idea will probably backfire in teh crazy somehow getting pregnant. You laugh but this is how half my guy friends ended up in one marriage or another. "Revenge" only shows teh crazy that you care.
0% of crazy women get pregnant by being ignored.
Do not feed teh crazy. Ignore her. Don't tell her any names of people you are seeing. Don't tell her anything at all. Block her number.
If you find any draws which are not yours, throw em out. You'll get more.
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07-17-2012, 02:16 AM
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HOF 2010
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oh man oh man oh man oh man...
RUN!
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we must pursue an ethic rooted in a hesitant determinism. We need to recognize obvious developmental differences between peoples and regions, but not oversimplify, and leave our options open. We cannot in every instance struggle unconditionally against fate, even though we have a military that will do so if so ordered. --Raymond Aron
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07-17-2012, 03:12 AM
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My Woman
Join Date: Aug 1997
Location: Anchorage, Alaska
Age: 48
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Is she hot?
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I may be a Saints fan but I'm sure as hell no Angel!!
XBOX Gamertag: Madhattr
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07-17-2012, 03:19 AM
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High Plains Drifter
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Location: now in Orange Beach
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Gaminerie is absolutely correct. I had to block my ex's phone calls, unfortunately her texts still came through. I was getting 50 voicemails a day and who knows how many texts. Luckily for me, she moved back to Europe and everything eventually calmed down. Getting texts every few minutes from the ex while dating my now fiancee was not fun to explain. Nor was when my ex showed up unexpectedly in my bedroom at 8 in the morning a couple months after we broke up. I thought she was going to stab me or something. It was ugly.
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Each time I go to the zoo and see those porpoises crammed into tiny tanks, I think, "What a waste that is." Butcher half of them now! That's a lot of dolphin meat that can be fed to our cats, freeing up that tuna for our nation's hungry.
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07-17-2012, 03:30 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Maxp
Gaminerie is absolutely correct. I had to block my ex's phone calls, unfortunately her texts still came through. I was getting 50 voicemails a day and who knows how many texts. Luckily for me, she moved back to Europe and everything eventually calmed down. Getting texts every few minutes from the ex while dating my now fiancee was not fun to explain. Nor was when my ex showed up unexpectedly in my bedroom at 8 in the morning a couple months after we broke up. I thought she was going to stab me or something. It was ugly.
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WOW, this is exactly the same story (minus the now dating fiancee) I think avoidance is the proper move here. Like Gaminerie said "Don't feed teh crazy" Plus I have to remember one of the things that made my break up easy was her refusal to wear black and gold to the failcans at Saints game. 
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07-17-2012, 04:18 AM
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Subscribing Member
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Quote:
Originally Posted by City Champ
oh man oh man oh man oh man...
RUN!
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You really should follow this man's advice. 
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07-17-2012, 04:48 AM
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Very Banned
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Gaminerie is absolutely correct.
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07-17-2012, 06:13 AM
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HOF 2010
Join Date: Aug 1997
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Originally Posted by Madhattr
Is she hot?
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not worth it, not even a little bit. Take it from me bro, as soon as you even remotely try to be decent, teh crazy will go back to being crazy. There is no way to really make that situation work, no matter what you do.
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we must pursue an ethic rooted in a hesitant determinism. We need to recognize obvious developmental differences between peoples and regions, but not oversimplify, and leave our options open. We cannot in every instance struggle unconditionally against fate, even though we have a military that will do so if so ordered. --Raymond Aron
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07-17-2012, 06:28 AM
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GIF GOD
Join Date: Mar 2005
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BBC, my condolences. Where can I send flowers to your funeral?
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07-17-2012, 06:32 AM
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Rookie
Join Date: Feb 2012
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Age: 26
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There is defiantly no going back to her, and she is cute but she is way above the The Vicky Mendoza Diagonal. Therefore undateable.
Last edited by wc_whodat; 07-17-2012 at 06:32 AM.
Reason: lack of adverbage
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07-17-2012, 06:47 AM
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Angler of the Year
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Metry
Age: 49
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Crazy in the head, crazy in the bed..... Was the first few months worth it??
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07-17-2012, 06:55 AM
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Very Banned
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07-17-2012, 08:11 AM
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Very Bland
Join Date: Jul 2001
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Quote:
Originally Posted by City Champ
oh man oh man oh man oh man...
RUN!
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I knew you would show up on this thread.
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