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i was engaged once my fiancee/wife saw the large amount spent on her ring on my bank statement (same day).There is no problem with trying to make a wedding proposal or gender reveal special. It can be done without causing the apocalypse
I got down on one knee in the middle of J Alexander back in 2005 after 2 gulped down martinis for courage
i literally just walked in the house greeted by "where is it?????" at least saved me the effort of having to propose.