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I've never shared nudes of anyone, ever. And no one has ever shared nudes of anyone with me, ever.

Unless the person that's nude gives you explicit permission to share their nude photos/videos, it seems like a disrespectful thing to do.

Not claiming any high ground, just honestly answering the question.
YES!
 
At what or who? You? I don't want to be thought I am perennially P'Oed off and hope I don't come across as such. Maybe I do. God knows there's a lot of things to be PO'd about; and at its core, a fundamental change in how women are seen in society needs -- NEEDS -- to change.

I know who I am. I know I am smart. I know I don't know everything, but I know a lot of things and I want to learn more things. I might get mad at someone who treats me like I'm stupid, but I also know it says more about their intellect than it does mine and my opinion will be that THEY'RE stupid. It doesn't make me doubt my own mind.
I'm pretty sure it was mostly tongue in cheek. That was my first thought anyway.
 
Emily Applegate was just speaking on CNN about how toxic & destructive the work environment was at the Washington football headquarters.

As she was speaking her boobs were hanging out of her shirt with a glaring 4 inches of cleavage.

I don’t get it. Men don’t interview with their b**** hanging out.

Why should women be shocked if folks stare when 1/2 their chest is exposed?!?!?

Yesterday we received our first Christmas 🎄 catalog for 2021. Sure enough, right on the cover is a lady with her boobs hanging out with 4 inches of cleavage & a man is putting a jewelry around her neck.

Does not matter to me how folks want to dress, I just can’t understand the dichotomy between how men & women appear in professional settings…..ESPECIALLY when they are fighting for the cause of being respected in the workplace?!?!?!
You are a woman? It floors me that you have written this. I will wear attire generally accepted as business attire such as a skirt and blouse or dress in a workplace setting and that should garner me the respect I deserve. I don't deserve to lose respect from you or anyone else in the workplace if the neckline is an open V-neck. If I am in a workplace doing my job, there should be no dichotomy. Sexual harrassment and sexual discrimination are against the law.
 
I'm pretty sure it was mostly tongue in cheek. That was my first thought anyway.
Yeah, I just took his thought and went off with it. I didn't take it personally. I mean, if I didn't take it personally when he called me a floozy.
 
Emily Applegate was just speaking on CNN about how toxic & destructive the work environment was at the Washington football headquarters.

As she was speaking her boobs were hanging out of her shirt with a glaring 4 inches of cleavage.

I don’t get it. Men don’t interview with their b**** hanging out.

Why should women be shocked if folks stare when 1/2 their chest is exposed?!?!?

Yesterday we received our first Christmas 🎄 catalog for 2021. Sure enough, right on the cover is a lady with her boobs hanging out with 4 inches of cleavage & a man is putting a jewelry around her neck.

Does not matter to me how folks want to dress, I just can’t understand the dichotomy between how men & women appear in professional settings…..ESPECIALLY when they are fighting for the cause of being respected in the workplace?!?!?!

newsflash...women have boobs...and sometimes, you can see part of them...we all figured this out when we were 7 and moved on....
 
I think the Racial comments directed towards Smith were abhorrent. I do not know the story about the cheerleader photos. If they were not given permission to share then that is a horrible action. I am understanding that it is reported Bruce Allen sent that to Gruden. You cannot use homophobic remarks in cancel culture. I do believe that Michael Sam was directed to get drafted. ESPN was at his day with his partner. ESPN is who Gruden worked for when this happened. It was not the NFL he was employed by, but ESPN when many of these emails took place. I do not like any of this. I believe Goodell is behind leaking these emails. He did so with Bountygate. He banned Barstool sports when they put the clown face up from reporting from the Super Bowl. Matt Patricia faced scrutiny for his Goodell clown face shirt, and his own wife started a fake twitter account to fight those who criticize Goodell. Michael Goodell, Roger Goodell homosexual brother called Michael Sam an instant legend. This is personal for Goodell. There are two wrongs in this scenario. This is now where my problem is realized. These emails never get out. No one is ever hurt. Now for two days there have been attacks on Gruden for these comments. I believe they are justified. Not just by those doing it. The truth is that when it comes to sexual orientation, Gender, Race, Bias, and overall Conversations. Some things are only meant for a few ears. Not everything that is said is within a vacuum. If I knew someone was going to go through ten years of my emails to friends and working colleagues. They picked out a few things I wrote. I would look like I am a terrible person. I believe this would be the case for anyone. Sometimes I have a rapport with people that I do not have with others. I can speak with them in a inoffensive manner using words other would deem offensive. I do not do it around them. It doesn't mean that I intrinsically feel how those words are meant or expressed. I think Jon Gruden did. They are just words. I do not understand how we are all of the sudden berated on how disgusting this language, and these bias are in the media by men who did the same exact thing. How is Keyshawn Johnson going to call someone a fraud? While working for ESPN. How hypocritical is that? He was arrested for beating a former girlfriend if I am not mistaken. All of these alpha-males want to preach that this is no way to act. They have all done it. Men have all said in privacy around other men something egregious. I respect the fact that Carl Nassib has come out as homosexual. I did not think it was a big deal. I don't think sexual orientation should be a big deal.
His boss called him a bad name. He took a personal day at work? He needed a personal day to process this? How much does this man make? He graduated Penn State. Do you know what happened at your alma mater? That Penn St. That was a scandal. This is some personal emails. We are blowing this way out of proportion. You found out your boss was an butt crevasse. Hell, I find that out all the time. He doesn't like an employee because of a characteristic, or a bias. Which happens everyday in the workplace. This happens whether you are in the NFL or at McDonalds. You go to work. You blow it up. I want to just say that I believe that this is an attack on masculinity. The ridiculous racist comment is horrible. It made me sick to my stomach. When you cannot correspond with a friend in a trusted state. Then your rights are gone. What you say in seven years of conversation is picked over, and turned into this. This was an investigation about a team across the Country with a trainer under investigation. It is scary to anyone who has ever had an offensive conversation in a bar, at your house, I have had numerous XXX videos sent to me through snapchat. Can all of this be used against anyone? This man lost his job and did not break any laws.
This is what is so scary about this situation. This man lost his livelihood because of a scandal pushed by a movement which he trusted would never been read by anyone else but a trusted colleague. That is infringement upon a freedom. He did not do anything illegal. He is not working anymore. This can happen to anyone now. Those who are calling him these names have been doing the same actions for over twenty years. Many have had charges brought upon them. It should scare all of us.
 
newsflash...women have boobs...and sometimes, you can see part of them...we all figured this out when we were 7 and moved on....
Yep. and some men (and women) have a hard time controlling themselves and so they have to blame the women for their indiscretion.
Most women don't care if you look at their boobs. Most women care if you stare or get weird about it.
 
Emily Applegate was just speaking on CNN about how toxic & destructive the work environment was at the Washington football headquarters.

As she was speaking her boobs were hanging out of her shirt with a glaring 4 inches of cleavage.

I don’t get it. Men don’t interview with their b**** hanging out.

Why should women be shocked if folks stare when 1/2 their chest is exposed?!?!?

Yesterday we received our first Christmas 🎄 catalog for 2021. Sure enough, right on the cover is a lady with her boobs hanging out with 4 inches of cleavage & a man is putting a jewelry around her neck.

Does not matter to me how folks want to dress, I just can’t understand the dichotomy between how men & women appear in professional settings…..ESPECIALLY when they are fighting for the cause of being respected in the workplace?!?!?!


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