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So its Feb 19
Five days after the 14th
Wife has been moping around all evening, I ask her whats up... took like 4 times before she decides to tell. I get the whole nine about not getting her a card for valentines day, how much she's hurt, how I always get her a card, etc etc....
Yet I cooked a great meal, candle lit. Had a nice arrangement of flowers. Made her favorite desert and had what I thought was a quality evening. I even gave a box of chocolates to the kids to give her. BUT NOOOOO the flowers & candy from kids felt like an after thought. The dinner wasn't enough, I can cook anytime. No mention of the candles or the favorite desert, the quality time or even the friggin full body massage.
My God.... guess I know better than to press her about what's wrong when she's moping around.
...and I even did the dishes!
I should have stuck with my original plan of frozen pizza & Warcraft, the result would be the same.
Five days after the 14th
Wife has been moping around all evening, I ask her whats up... took like 4 times before she decides to tell. I get the whole nine about not getting her a card for valentines day, how much she's hurt, how I always get her a card, etc etc....
Yet I cooked a great meal, candle lit. Had a nice arrangement of flowers. Made her favorite desert and had what I thought was a quality evening. I even gave a box of chocolates to the kids to give her. BUT NOOOOO the flowers & candy from kids felt like an after thought. The dinner wasn't enough, I can cook anytime. No mention of the candles or the favorite desert, the quality time or even the friggin full body massage.
My God.... guess I know better than to press her about what's wrong when she's moping around.
...and I even did the dishes!
I should have stuck with my original plan of frozen pizza & Warcraft, the result would be the same.