Movies are movies. Don't go by that. Also, don't associate with women who like to tell you how AWFUL and EXCRUCIATING and traumatic it is to have a baby. It's not a contest. Yes, some women have terrible trouble. Most don't. Yes, some women have complications. Most don't. And even those who do--I had the blood pressure thing and another thing that I will spare the fellas the details about--usually it works out. You're in a professional environment with skilled people, doing the most ordinary thing you can possibly do. Don't make it a big deal until it is one, and don't listen to those women who tell bad stories.