Tax Question

She is. She's actually listed on the other 1098 I received from the company that bought my mortgage but not on the one from the original bank that gave it to us. Talking to them they said that since I was the primary that's the way they did it and they couldn't change it.

The reality is that they can change it, but it requires a little bit of effort on their part, and heaven help them if they have to work a little.