sounds like you want the Holman Hangout in grayton beach. me and 4 other buddies stayed for a week there last may. it was perfect. great weather, quiet (until the college kids came later in the week. even then they were gone most of the time). very welcoming and "home" feeling. i normally dont care where i stay, its just a bed and bathroom. as long as its clean. but when i walked in to this place, i really felt like i was staying at a familiar place. lots of memories for the family that grew up in that house. the layout is neat, also. lots of nooks and crannies, doors,etc. if you want an awesome sunrise to awaken you, make sure you call dibs on the back 2nd floor bedroom, above the porch, overlooking the lake.
heres just a few pics from our stay. not many, but it captures 90% of what i accomplished during the week. and thats exactly what i wanted. i only went to the beach one day. yeah, it was beautiful. however, i much preferred sitting by the lake with a beer and a fishing pole and crab trap.
grayton '10
oh and by the way...if you got out wandering around drunk and barefoot at 4am because you thought you saw your buddies truck in the driveway and you cant find him, the cops will pick you up.