Does the silence from both the NFLPA and the owners make you get more upset?

yep wait until April 6 for the injunction ruling.
Not sure what the players will do if it is not granted.

Cave. They have no other serious leverage except waiting out the summer. No one is going to want to start missing offseason workout bonuses and game checks that cost them more cash then just signing the NFL's last proposal. It's all about money in the end after all.

This court ruling is the key. Once it happens, one way or another, things will start rolling.