Why do women do this? Part 2

IMO, she expected you to stick around, be her should to cry on and give her confidence with the new guy. If it didn't work out with him, she'd dangle a little carrott of hope your way getting you to rebuild her lost confidence due to rejection. Then she'd find someone else to chase and repeat the cycle. All the while, you just become increasingly frustrated and feel worse about yourself.

You ruined her fallback plan.


Yeah, I figured that, I mean I wondered why I was being kept around. I think it was more of keeping her options open and I was gonna be a last resort. I think it was pretty sinister on her part now that I think about it. At the end of the day I know I am better than she is because I would have never done that to someone, I would have been upfront about it. I really hope it snowballs with the guy she's chasing and kicks herself for screwing up what she had, she doesn't even know how good she had it.

If the unfortunate event ever comes around where she does try to come back around trying to get back into my good graces because it snowballed with the said guy she's going to be in for such a rude awakening. I will demand to know certain things, let her know she has forever lost my trust and will not ever get it back.