How Much of the Severity was Personal between Goodell and SP?

Schefter said this AM on ESPN that Goodell was P.O.'d that Loomis and Payton took 5 days to release a statement instead of an immediate public apology.
Really? And this is who the owners trust running their league? He sounds like the little girl who gets shunned by the good looking guy and wants revenge because her feelings are hurt. What an unprofessional idiot.