Need In-Law advice
are they offering to pitch in?
This. Are they going to pay the difference?
The main question is how much time do they have left. Do you really want two people living there the rest of their lives?
You will either have them die in your backyard or have to move them into "the front house."
Do you really want to watch someone grow old and die for the next decade?
Do you really want to watch your wife watch her parents grow old and die for the next decade?
I hate to be insensitive but unless they
need to be there and you have a moral obligation to help them, then it seems like an unnecessary strain on your marriage.
And in a worst case scenario, you get a divorce and are stuck paying to house them. I don't know the laws but I imagine that if you take on the burden while married, it will carry over.:scratch: