OR you could just make sure that the woman you marry and have kids with is the one you want to spend your life with. Marriage is supposed to be for life. Till death do us part. I made that promise and I will live by it. Too many people are treating marriage like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship where you can just back out whenever you want. There is a reason the divorce rate is so high these days. People just want to jump into it without truly truly thinking about the consequences. And I came from a home where my parents got divorced before I was 4 years old so I know what it's about. Just think about it before you propose. Bring on the red thumbs!