I didn't neg you, but if you think people dying due to a massive tornado plowing into their homes is equivalent to "patting someone's butt" or "tough love," then I truly feel sorry for you :jpshakehead:.
I am just throwing this out there, but if there is a bigger plan than just this life (maybe there is a life after this one) do you think death matters to God? It would seem that this is a probationary state in which we would be preparing to meet him at any given moment so, it's all part of his plan.