Exactly, and most of the time we got drunk and moved on. Complaining about players or the team for days/the entire season is a far "cry" from refwhining.
I guess too, when I see us have two three and outs, one on their 24 yard line and no calls against us to stop us, it's hard to see a call later or before as even 1% as significant as those failures to just move the chains once and take another 2:10+ of the clock, or Heaven forbid, get in the zone to ice it.
Jerry Rice fumbling at the 1 and punching the padded wall in the Dome then turning around to see it's a touchdown; that was a lot tougher to take.