LOL. Bruh, I've been there. And when I recognize the trap, I say, "Ohhhhhhh no. You are NOT getting me with that one. There is CLEARLY a right and a wrong answer here. No thanks."
Yeah, I'm kind of lucky in that way - my wife didn't have that many long term relationships before us - and I had been trained up by some of the best and have spent most of my adult life primarily around women
When my wife does try some trap setting, I can see it coming from a mile away