Why do women do this? Part 5

I'm lucky on the food thing. My wife orders the same exact meal based on the place we are at. If it's a new place, she will order as close as possible something she has had somewhere else. LOL. At home, I know she doesn't cook, so I don't ever get disappointed in that.

As far as the other stuff goes, I told my wife long ago that I don't like being tested and I don't read minds. I really started to get annoyed by it. I told her if you want something from me, ask for it. It really has worked out. If you tolerate the behavior, it will continue.

I also learned to stop trying to make things right when she is upset. I would follow her around like a dumba$$. It gets her more upset. If I just leave her alone and go do something for awhile, it just goes away. It's weird, but it works.

The only thing she does that still is a bit annoying is try to redirect a conversation if she is losing an argument and bring up some other BS to try and "win?" I am totally onto it now and I just keep saying, "What does 'X' have to do with 'Y'?" Sometimes it works, other times I just end the conversation cause its not worth the brain drain.