Even definitions, if they don't like the way a word makes them feel, they will actually try to change the definition of the word. This was an actual argument I had.
Spot on! A similar item is if another woman looks better than her (body-wise), they either had work done or they were photoshopped. I can't tell you how bad I wanna say, "No, love, she just probably eats better than you do and works out more."
I am pretty sure I did say it once or twice long ago, but it goes against her preconceived idea. In other words, it fails. That is not to insult my wife, either. My wife was pretty much model gorgeous for many years, but she doesn't have the dietary or physical conditioning desire to sustain it, nor do I care. Just sayin...don't be a hater.