NFL/NBA now have a Donald Sterling problem with Gayle Benson
I don't have any inside connections, and I have no idea what the real story might be. But I find that most people in the organization, and members on this site who have known or interacted with Ms Benson have very positive things to say about her.
The only criticisms seem to be from those who stand to lose out on money due to her relationship with Tom. My spidy sense tells me that this is not a coincidence.