NFL/NBA now have a Donald Sterling problem with Gayle Benson

the entire issue with this situation is this:

Are the 3Rs butthurt that Dad/Grandad took the keys to the playroom away?

Yes.

Is Rita a major b-word?

Yes.

Is Gayle a gold digger?

Yes.

Is she the reason the Rs got cut off?

Yes.

Did the Rs deserve to get cut off?

Yes.

None of this is positive if all you want is solid, winning football 25-ish sundays out of the year.
Gayle is not the reason they three R's were cut off. Renee had huge issues with Tom's second wife as well. The only changes that have occurred were whatever Rita did to earn a suspension and Tom nearing the end of his life, and seeing the struggle for his fortune start.

Renee and Tom Roddy made a play to take control of the empire, and Benson caught it and put a stop to it. Gayle was a factor, but in no way the reason this has all played out in this manner.