This is the equivalent of a guy with a 6th grade education arguing with a Fields Medal winner that imaginary numbers aren't real math and that's that. There's no point in engaging people about a subject that they clearly know nothing about.
It's so infuriating. There's so much information out there at your fingertips yet you choose to be willfully ignorant to support your preconceived, uneducated narrow opinion on this topic. There have been cases of children born into families with father's that sound just like you. Listen to their stories about their 1, 2, or 3 year olds. It's heartbreaking to watch a child try to deal with identity before Kindergarten.