Cops: Man Choked 8-Year-Old Girl in Restaurant Bathroom
How is it wrong unless it's a birth defect?
how about this - try to put the ideas of "normal" and "abnormal" on the table for a bit
imagine an average bell curve - most everyone fits under the big part of the bell
now look out at the sides and see where the occurrences start getting pretty rare
notice also that there's no place where there's some sort of gap -where we jump from a bunch of occurrences and then there's an interruption and we land in that rare area
defect is only a label that some apply because "othering" is just coin of the realm - but the human condition is fluid and constantly adapting to any varieties of factors
note that the lines drawn that separate the light from dark gray areas is a choice - it's not indicative of anything other than that's where someone drew the line