Seriously, how bad was this ?

well it doesnt sounf like you blew her off or meant any ill intent, but she was left in a vulnerable position - i was always taught to make sure the girl(s) with (dont mean exclusivly in a dating situation but in general) are inside the house and safe - which is why when i drop a girl off and its not a date so i dont walk them to the door i dont drive away till i get the flash of the porch lite.

i remember once several of us went to a Rush concert in Monroe, one of the girls passed out and hit her chin on the arena floor and busted it open, we took her to the clinic in the arena, they patched her up but wouldnt let her stay there, she didnt want to stay in the arena so i had to sit with her in the truck, i missed the whole show - i sat on the tailgate and listen to a rush tape and drank beer - i couldnt leave her alone locked in the truck passed out. -