I'm glad that you made it through as well and my comment may sound or be indeed heartless but this guy is not just some run of the mill drug addict. He's had the best of the best resources at his disposal afforded to him to get past this and he simply can't do it!
There's no telling how much two NFL teams have invested in trying to help this guy get his act together while paying him more money than you and I will ever see in our lifetime and he still can't get himself squared away enough to do the right thing!!
Just like you I know how hard it is and I truly respect your situation and your opinion but I still think this guy is dumb as a post!!