Well this is lame (I have to go to a SB party)

I can't speak for you but I would rather for whoever I am with would understand my stance. If it doesn't involve work or something important, I would hope she understand and let me stay home. I not in the mood to have fun today. I am actually in a serious foul mood knowing that this was suppose to be our day. And to sit there and eat and have fun, wouldn't feel right for me. But that is just me talking. Everyone deal with it differently.