Sister ....but you're welcome :)
Some of the people in here preaching from their ivory towers are really incredible to me. I'm very thankful for the job I had and my own personal experiences for providing me with some clarity, real perspective and empathy because I probably sounded a lot like them and through my work, helped me understand my own brother's situation from a more logical perspective rather than a perspective clouded by my emotions.
We are all one life tragedy away from becoming addicts or homeless/housing insecure or any number of things we swore we'd never do or end up being. Life has a funny way of humbling some folks sometimes.