But you are equal in that you both have the same naturally occurring potential. Assume that you are the same age. If you have the dedication and training it's possible to put yourself on an equal playing field with the NFL player, but could a woman of the same size and height do that? It would take many more extenuating circumstances to allow her to be able to complete at that level. In fact, it's never been done and it would take her much more dedication and training than it would you. So that's what you're asking of other women when making them compete against a trans athlete. They have to work and train harder in order to even make it a level playing field.