You're equating race with disability and with economic hardship. I make no such assumption. Any decision that is BASED ON RACE is therefore racist, and in my mind wrong.
If a person is disabled, accomodations should be made, of course. If a child (or adult for that matter) is hungry and without means to feed themselves, of course they should get assistance in that regard. In neither case was race mentioned. The INDIVIDUAL is in need, not their skin color.
Your argument seems to equate race with both disability and poverty, unless I misunderstand...