I know that to a degree what I’m about to type undercuts my earlier assurance that I’m not victim blaming. And, I’m well aware that everyone handles grief in their own weird way. I fully expect if something strange happened to my wife - selfishly, the most important person in the world to me — I’d be super judged due to my lack of outward emotion. But I can guarantee you one thing — I ain’t going on TV with that blood sucker Dr. Phil.