You express concern with being thought to be victim bullying. I don't think you are. I understand EVERYTHING you said including your remarks about Dr. Phil. I was a little surprised to see him talking to Dr. Phil but, okay, he just wanted to get maximum exposure since he had a missing daughter. I'm not sure how discerning he was being considering his panicked mindset. And he even said that his daughter wouldn't come to him because he'd only want to be a fixer. I'm not sure why he didn't consider THAT something he needed to fix.