I know. And those women use the "knowledge" that it's only men who abuse to their advantage and it's disgusting. I dunno, I guess the only thing I can really do is, 1, not be an abuser myself; and, 2, not be in a relationship with an abuser just because I "love" them esp. when I have other choices and resources. People want to go back and redo what the police did because they want there to be a different outcome and they feel powerless. I think that's how I express that same feeling by wanting there to be "education" to our young people and knowing that's not going to change a thing till we change within ourselves.