Yeah, you can save all that garbage for folks that truly deserve compassion/empathy....
I'm truly sorry about your brother, I have also experienced this kind of loss, it sucks because you are really powerless to help in most cases...
But, the point you are missing is that by being vaxxed he is actually also protecting others around him and he very well could have been taking a bed needed for other patients, in some areas he is putting others at risk due to lack of resources at so many hospitals....
I think considering those points, you may not agree that they don't deserve much empathy but maybe you can understand why folks feel that way....