I saw the dating thing and thought it was ridiculous. Even if she is right, these two aren't child actors. They are consenting adults so unless they sought her advice she needs to cram it up her arse IMO
And if Jamie Foxx allowed that to be an excuse not to invite the 25 year old star of the movie and his girlfriend/co-star, then he is a dbag as well (although if it's true they weren't invited and told to stay away then I can't see any explanation where he isn't a dbag for it)