A 49ers loss allows the Saints to "essentially" control their own destiny for the playoffs

none of that is accurate
Well of course it is.

Assume ...

Cardinals or Rams claim Wild-Card # 1 .
Saints win out.

Saints : 10 - 7 -> Wild-Card # 2 or 3
Niners : 10 - 7 -> Wild-Card # 2 or 3
Eagles : 9 - 8 -> Miss playoffs by losing 1 game.

If the Niners are the team that loses at least one game and the Eagles win out, then the Niners finish 9 - 8 and miss the playoffs.

If Cardinals, Niners, Eagles and Saints all finish 10 - 7, the Cardinals miss the playoffs based on having the worst conference record.