Kelly Tilghman controversy (golf channel)

Dammit every few months we have a controversy like this, and then everyone comes out and sticks their two cents in, radio call-in shows and internet boards get in a tizzy, we wind up having a ten page long thread on the EE board and we wind up coming to the same conclusion-- that it all depends on your perspective whether or not she "meant it" this way or that way, or whether we're making too much out of it. Do we really need to go through this again???????