Male/Female Dynamic: Kids and Adults

I've seen it, experienced it and heard about it:

KIDS

"Why does little Jimmy chase Cheryl with worms and pull her hair?"

"That's because he likes her"

Jump 30 years

ADULTS

"Why does Cheryl tease and criticize James all the time?"

"That's because she likes him"
We want what we think we can’t have.

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