Im 35 years old and live with my 81 year old grandmother
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| I feel like a loser. I have lived on my own before but got tired of renting so my grandma let me live with her so I can save money on a downpayment on a house. I'm not a freeloader I pay her 500 dollars a month for bills, and I help her out since she has Arthirtis in her hands. I know this is a temporary situation but i still feel like a complete loser. It would be one thing if I was 25 but I'm in my mid 30s no kids never been married and dont date becaose what woman would want to date a 35 year old man living with his grandmother. Be honest should I feel this way? |
I don't think you are a loser at all. I'm sure your grandmother loves the companionship and the help. Stop looking at it as I'm living with my grandmother, and instead think of it as I'm helping out my grandmother. She may be helping you, but you can make her life so much better in return. Who wouldn't like a man that was willing to help out with his elderly grandmother? Your grandmother isn't going to be here forever, bring a smile to her face and make her life better.