Im 35 years old and live with my 81 year old grandmother

I think your feelings are valid. We all have different criteria for what makes us feel like a 'loser'.

Like others have mentioned, I'd just focus on coming up out of that place. "Yeah I might be in Loserville for the time being, but it's just a layover. I'm not putting down roots."

These days, there are so many women who have their own thing. House, career, ambitions, etc. They're just looking for a good time.

You might have to date older, but trust me, I don't care who- I mean THEY don't care who or what you're going home to...

Let's just hang out and have fun. Then you go do you, I have to get up early tomorrow. :very-happy: