Im 35 years old and live with my 81 year old grandmother

Sorry to focus on this little detail, but don’t you be live in north north Louisiana?
And you’re saying that rents are out of control even there?!?
That seems like a not great sign

It's all relative, of course. They're not astronomical like they are in NOLA or BR or wherever, but I'm also making significantly less money than if I worked in a larger district, so a completely unexceptional one bedroom apartment is still like 40% of my take home pay.

By the time my rent and bills are paid, I have almost nothing left over. Inflation/rent hikes have obliterated me.