A coworker and I were discussing this today.
If you were married for 20 years, had a couple kids in the process, and your wife dies. A few years later you get remarried. Say you were married to #2 for about 20 years, whom you had a child with also. When you die, which wife do you get buried by? Is there a correct answer to this? I feel like no matter which direction you go, some are going to be upset...
No, this isn't a case for me, because i won't remarry if my wife passes on. I wouldn't stay single, but i am not getting married again... Plus i want to be cremated anyway, so this wouldn't be a choice me or my family will have to make..