The problem of White Supremacy - Spinoff from Buffalo Shooting thread

I have seen the children of racists go diffeent directions. Thats why when someone blames parents for a childs racism, that not always correct.
I know many people who's parents are as racists as they come, but the child grew into an adult and made adult decisions about not be a racists. But i also know many who are just as racists as their parents. So blaming the parent is mostly a cop out.
My cousin who is married to a black man, went back to school in her late 30's. a class mate (in her 20s) and her decided to have study session at the younger ones house. My cousin brought her daughter with her (who s mixed). My cousin got a text as she was taking stuff out of her bag, before she could read it, the girl came running in there saying "i'm sorry, i meant to send that text to my fiance!", The text said "I didn't know Sarah was a N lover" but used the whole word. The first thing the girl said was, I'm sorry.. I am not racists, thats just the way i was raised... My cousin told her you are a grown woman with a house and a fiance, you are old enough to make your own life decisions. She packed her stuff and left and never spoke to her again.
A good friend of mine, his parents are pretty racists, they are the type who are aganst interraccal marriage, etc. He says his sister is the same way. But he isn't anything like them. He has had many blow ups with them about how they talk around his children. He has left abruptly from their house quite a few times over it, and they still don't understand why he gets so mad, :its just their opinions".
My wife's uncle was a good guy, would give anyone the shirt off his back if they needed it, black or white. But was one of the most racists people i knew. I had to call him out once because he made a comment about Puerto Ricans, which is my heritage on my moms side. But he knew not to make many racists comments in my company, but usually said them "jokingly".. His oldest son is a sherriff deputy, who is just like him. His other son is a teacher who is nothing like him.