From talking with my circle of friends, I find the results of the poll thus far a bit surprising (with a decent sample size). Most of us are outside of the truly "happily married" crowd. To be honest, I totally should be in that number....because of so many things "going for us", but currently we are not. Interestingly enough, our baby just moved out - off to college. This is uncharted territory. Our kids, in my opinion, are a huge reason we made it this far....over 20 years.