I think retirement is a pipe dream...

True dat. Probably the biggest disservice I did to my kids was not making them work the type of nasty arse jobs I did starting, like you, at age 14.

I was reading last night how the thing that is keeping the Chandler dude from Friends from going back to opioids is thinking about having to live the rest of his life with a colostomy bag. The thing that kept me in night school after working a full time job and a part time job was the thought of washing dishes, or flipping hamburgers, or tearing off shingles in 90 degree heat for the rest of my life.



Minor correction- like i mentioned in my post, i started that type of work at 9(!) yrs old.. just sayin…


I saw a headline about Matthew Perry ’waking up in his own feces’ but decided not to click on it since i was about to eat dinner, ha…. Seriously though, i agree that those types of experiences can have a huge impact on future decisions.. hard lessons for sure .