I care that she is a basketball player no more than I care that you are a moderator, or that I am a banker, or that the sky at times is blue. It’s a description.
It sure seemed like you just used her profession as a way of devaluing her life in this exchange.
The choice, according to the administration, was bringing her home on these terms or not bringing her home. I understand you don’t believe that exchange should have been made.