It isn’t this akin to the abortion debate - the philosophy of the law makes it want to seem like there is balance on both sides when clearly there isn’t
Only the woman can have the fetus inside here, so the man has very little skin in the game’ (like, a cell), he can’t share any of the burden - and yet, somehow men get a say in what happens
Same thing with breastfeeding- when the dad can start breastfeeding, he and the court can determine what ‘equal’ and ‘share’ means, until then no - law needs to take a backseat to nature