The sad thing is most people don't understand what they are dealing with, can't identify that's something is actually wrong or where it is coming from and it manifests in ways that you might not expect. Even when you know something is not right, it's REALLY difficult to admit that and seek help. Many times a person will want help, but are afraid of what others will think of them. Sometimes it takes a breakdown like Ridley had to set someone on the right path to healing. Many times people never hear the wake-up call or are too afraid/unable to answer.