The Playmaker Michael Irvin Pulled from All Super Bowl Coverage/NFL Network (09/14 EDIT: Irvin settles his defamation suit w/hotel, returns to NFLN)

Of course! And this is an outcome most people are familiar with when rejected. The situation here though that we are discussing involves this man potentially facing legal issues and essentially getting sent home from work, not to mention public ridicule.

Is all that warranted just because the woman he hit on happened to not be feeling him?

If he said what she said he said, then yes.

There is a power dynamic involved, because he is Michael Irvin. That shouldn't be taken out of the equation, him saying that would put a different kind of pressure on her that it wouldn't if it was just some random dude.