The Playmaker Michael Irvin Pulled from All Super Bowl Coverage/NFL Network (09/14 EDIT: Irvin settles his defamation suit w/hotel, returns to NFLN)

I get what you're saying. I really do. I was never the type of guy who walked up to a woman I have never met and asked for her number or anything like that. That just wasn't me. Now that I think about it I was never in a relationship that wasn't initiated by the woman. But I had friends who weren't shy and they would try to talk to women and get their number. Not in an aggressive way or anything, just normal flirting. Now that is inappropriate and offensive. Just a different time.
I'm that guy too. I have and still am being approached by shockingly forward women. I truly don't see what they see. My wife tells me that I'm oblivious to how women disrespectfully stare at me, as she is invisible. Wome are so bold these days. Some have even told me that they want what they want. To me, if a guy was doing the things or saying what some women have said to me, we would be behind bars.