Sexting & Sextortion Scams

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I am a high school teacher and know it’s easy to find boys who will do this. Things to keep in mind:

1) Teens have many many relationships with people that they only know on line.

2) So, they will not listen to you while you tell them they “don’t know” someone on line

The solution:

Teen boys don’t understand that girls are wired differently. That they are excited by a cute face, yes, but mostly by power, skill, and competence. A real girl will ask for pictures of your cute face, but will really want to see pictures of you in context - in your sports uniform for example. Or at work (if you have a cool job). Or your muscles. Or looking sappy and in love with them.

High school girls are NOT turned on by genitalia. Most adult women are not either - hence the failure of Playgirl magazine. Literally, girls are not the slightest bit interested in your genitalia. If they were, boys would walk around in codpieces like girls walk around in sport bras. Make them understand this starting in middle school. Girls care about skills, not boy bits.

They can decide this is fair or not. But maybe they will then wonder about that girl who wants a shot of their private parts. If you can’t convince them this is not a girl, you may be able to convince them that she’s acting weird.
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