Carr doesn't get flak for yelling at Olave... He gets flak because he wasted 3rd and 8 to have a tantrum. He has another tantrum responding to media. That's not showing emotion, that is an inability to control your emotions. Talking to someone on the sideline is galaxies apart from wasting 3rd and 8 when trying to come from behind. In fact talking to someone on the sideline is EXACTLY what you expect from a leader.